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A Cousin

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i feel so glad that i have a big family. my mom has 9 siblings (the first son died recently) and my father has 4 siblings (the first son died long ago)… so that means currently i have 11 uncles and aunts.. all of them has children ranging from a son and 9 children. so, i have extremely many cousins..hehe and i love all of them.

i’m happy that all of them are doing good and all of them are definitely good people. but, i wanna write about one of them- a cousin from my father side. i dont have any particular reason for choosing him. its just that he’s my cousin and also one of my many good childhood friends..not forgetting, he’s also the wali for me after my father and my both lil bros…

yea, as grew up, people’s expression on him never change. everywhere he went, people always think that he’s good looking. yes, indeed.. i’m not gonna deny the fact that he’s good looking, tall, has a good leadership ability and all. but since i grew up with him, i dont think of him as special.

its amazing how he grew up as a good human being(i dont know other word to use) in fact that his father left him and his family since he was small. and yea, he’s at the same age as me. even me myself never met his dad or i did but i cant remember. that means, he’s really young at the time his dad dies.

he definitely can stand on his own feet and can manage himself. i’m really proud to have him as my cousin. he’s honest about his feelings. i know this because when we were small, i could see that he didnt hide his feelings to the girl that he liked at that time..keke.. but its cute cuz he’s just a kid at that time.. and now, he’s a man.. he conveyed his feelings towards the person he like openly thru fb… and i asked him and yea, no doubt he being honest and admit that he likes this one girl from our high school.

now, we are taking our separate ways…he’s goin to jordan to pursue his ambition and me with mine…

proud to have such good people as my cousins and family…^^

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hye, me blog…^^;;; r u having nice days lately??? hope every1 is…(-_^)

myb ur wondering why is my title is about ‘those’ things….

b4 i tell you why, i wanna share s’thing 1st… bout my teacher’s words… these words has always been knocking in my head and always reminds me if i wanna do s’thing…

the words r;”all things hv their own pros and cons; it depends on us of how we use it, whether it is for the benefits or vice versa. We cn get many advantages and b happy if we use it for the proper purpose and we also cn get and cause many catastrophe and griefs if we misuse it”. my teacher gave an e.g-drugs… yea, he’s right.. arent u agree??

cigarrette smoke is among of the things that i hate the most… and of coz people who smokes… if i saw ppl wif cigar, cigarrette or s’thing like that, i was like.. euww.. and no doubt suffocate wif the smokes…besides, we also cn get the disease that caused by the smoke though we never touch that thing…. scary..@___@

i hv a cousin.. its ashamed 4 me 2 admit.. but, yea, i hv a user(drug addict) cousin… ALLAH knows…having ONE user in family is already caused so much trouble to the whole family…i mean, all the relatives…i feel sorry to my uncle and aunt… they gave all their trust to their son… and they always open their heart and hand for him. each and every time he said that he had repented, they always believe in him and accept him back… but, he never change… 2 my surprise, my dad told me that he’s already in his 40’s… when my dad isnt home cuz of his work, on 1 nite, he came…so, my mom told me to call my uncle and aunt…and so, they came…then s’thing unexpected happened… they were arguing… my siblings and i were shocked and afraid, of coz… but luckily, nothing bad happened and everything was safe as he finally gave up the argument and walked away….fyi, my lil sis called the police…and they came right after he was gone… i’ll nvr ever 4get that nite…undoubtly

the gambling thing… my dad once said, gambling cn cause addiction juz like smoking and drugs do… one nite, my other uncle and aunt came to our house.. its custom actually, for them to come at nite after they came back from the mosque as they hv no one at their house cuz all of their children are working and live somewhere else… that one nite also, icame to know about a shocking truth… my parents and my uncle spilt everything about ppl who they know that involve wif gambling… and wut made me shock is, most of them are teachers… how awful and sucks truth to b said..but, thats the reality irl…my mum also said that a fren of my dad hd came to my grandparents house to borrow some money wif my dad cuz of his habit in gambling…ominous rite?? 4 a teacher to gamble and evn borrow money wif ppl 4 that particular purpose…its not my intention to say anything bad about any1… juz wanna share and as a reminder to us…^^

k, thats all 4 now…


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